Tuesday, June 4, 2013

I recently read an article titled “Start-ups, 80% of your growth depends on this”. The article outlined stages that typical companies go through as they grow, complete with timelines for each stage.

Read between the lines though and the author’s point is clear: if you work hard and follow the rules, you too can someday build a company and have moderate success like him.

I’m sure the author meant well, but the idea that I (or anyone for that matter) need to follow a prescribed path to mediocrity is complete crap.

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Photo credit http://www.flickr.com/photos/just_javier/284672896/

So then, how do you stop playing to the 80% and instead create things that shatter glass ceilings and truly change the game?

Friday, May 17, 2013

 

My deepest fear in life is mediocrity.

 

Chris Crosby - Eagle Scout

 

the Fear of

 

A life un-lived.

A purpose un-fulfilled.

Potential un-met.

A reality Un-realized.

 

Sometimes though,

secretly-

I fear success more.

 

Well, maybe it’s not success I fear…

but rather the losses that come with it.

 

The loss of my mediocrities.

Friday, February 1, 2013

The term BATNA, or Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement, typically refers to your fallback plan in the event that whatever negotiation you’re involved in doesn’t go through. Whether you’re negotiating the salary for a new job or the acquisition of your company, having a solid and strong BATNA can help strengthen your overall position.

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Photo Credit: masinka via Compfight cc

However, the practice of developing options and alternatives is imperative outside of direct negotiations as well.

Let’s say, for example, you’re a startup that’s developed a shiny new widget. Its ready to go, you’ve poured everything you have into it: time, money, blood, sweat, tears, political capital with your family, the whole shebang. Now you’re working on that first big sales contract or you’re taking your consumer based product to market directly to customers.

Monday, January 28, 2013

Stories and guiding myths get passed down through generations and shape how we approach negotiations in our daily life. Many situations we face for the sake of personal growth and global progress require each of us to renegotiate relationships with family members, as well as our deceased relatives and cultural heroes.

Ancestry-Face

A key argument I make in Negotiating Inside Out is that one of the hardest parts of any negotiation is the one that happens inside your own head. Your own values and beliefs often get in the way of getting what you want. Sometimes, the values and obligations inherited from our parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and ancestors have the most profound effects.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Like many other subjects, the study and practice of negotiation has become a club shrouded in acronyms. Insiders throw terms like BATNA and ZOPA around like everyone should be teaching their kid to spell them in their alphabet soup. For the rest of though, many of these acronyms are simply meaningless.

plan b

BATNA Basics

When you enter into a negotiation with one or more parties, it’s usually under the premise that you want to improve your current position. Maybe that’s a new job, selling your company or getting your young daughter to hold still while you brush her hair. When negotiating any arrangement, your BATNA is your Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement. Or simply put, plan B.